Life is going downhill. Why and what to do?

Life is such that you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your real princess. Why does it turn out that you choose the wrong girls with whom you can build relationships and be happy?

Sometimes it seems that life is getting worse every day as if inexorably going downhill. At the same time, you can not be lazy, try to do something and plow all the time, but all efforts are in vain. How do you deal with life getting worse and not adding up?

Sometimes it’s as if you are stuck in some place when one day is like all the previous ones, there is absolutely no movement forward and you feel dull. How to get out of this impasse, where endless walking in circles does not bring anything positive? First, you need to figure out the reasons why everything is going, to put it mildly, not very well. Sometimes the factors will not be very pleasant, but they will give ground for changes for the better.

Waiting for a miracle

Many of us are accustomed to everyday life that we are in no hurry to bring something positive, promising and promising into it. But an idle way of life, when you live in eternal relaxation, does not bring anything good. Miracles do not happen, and therefore you should do something necessary and important yourself.

You can wait forever for a happy chance, but you can create a good opportunity yourself. Do things that increase your chances of getting what you want. For work, grow professionally and improve your skills, to get rid of loneliness, meet and go on dates, and for a beautiful figure, go in for sports and exercise regularly.

Lack of self-criticism

Very often we were taught not to scold ourselves and praise ourselves more. But the other side of the coin is that we start to consider ourselves pretty good at everything. Why is life going downhill? We don’t introspect because our ego can’t stand it. But are you perfect?

Take a sober look at yourself with a critical eye. It is very difficult to admit to oneself one’s negative habits, weaknesses, laziness, lack of professionalism, lack of experience, and low knowledge. To change in your life, you should get rid of your shortcomings while working on your strengths at the same time. Perhaps your weaknesses are drowning you, and by getting rid of them will you rush forward?

Having eternal excuses

There are two types of people. Some are always looking for someone to blame for what is happening in their lives, but the saddest thing is that they find it. They justify their failures, problems and troubles with a thousand reasons. Parents, relatives, friends, another half, former, bosses, colleagues, spiteful, enemies, enemies, government, crisis or circumstances are to blame.

The second type of people takes responsibility for their own destiny. They do not make excuses and do not look for the guilty, which is much easier. They struggle with circumstances and change lives for the better, which is much more productive and more promising.

Fear of failure

Many people live unhappy lives because they are afraid to try something. Sign up for courses, come up to meet, go to the gym, do something important, and take a chance somewhere. The fear of failure is meaningless because it will definitely happen if you don’t try.

Life always goes downhill when you do nothing and are afraid of everything. But by doing and learning from failures, you will achieve your goal. We always regret more that we didn’t try and take a risk than that we made a little mistake. And therefore bolder. Take action!

Lack of goals and plan

Why are we stuck? We simply do not have goals and dreams of where to go, but without this, everything will look more like a fuss. When there is no specific plan, then actions will also be extremely ineffective.

Decide what you really want to get in the end, and then start taking action. Make a plan for a five-year period, a year, six months, a month, a week and a day. When there is a clear plan, then you just need to act and stick to discipline, which is much easier. You have no idea where you might be in a year.

A man stuck in the past

How does the past affect you? Our past can often be better than the present, which is why we subconsciously try to escape and return to it all the time. Sometimes some mistakes or grievances of the past torment us and we cannot feel free in the present.

Be sure to get rid of the torment of the past, so as not to drag this suitcase without a handle into the future. But to live in the present and only today is also recklessness. To get something in the future, you need to plant the seeds of opportunity today. Think about the future and what should be done today and now.

Use your head, not your emotions

Emotions are bad clues and advisers in life. Use your head, not your emotions, to approach any matter judiciously. If you think carefully and do not succumb to emotions, then you can calmly think through the best courses of action in any business. Think more often and with more composure, rather than fuss and chaos.

Emotions are bad clues and advisers in life. Use your head, not your emotions, to approach any matter judiciously. If you think carefully and do not succumb to emotions, then you can calmly think through the best courses of action in any business. Think more often and with more composure, rather than fuss and chaos.