It’s hard to see on your own, but it’s perfectly visible from the outside. Are you stuck in your life and don’t know what to do? Is the job unpromising, does not bring satisfaction and money? Are relationships toxic and long dead? Are you unhappy and worse than ever? Why are you going down? Causes of failures that drown you. Everything in a person’s life can be bad. He is not satisfied with work, relationships, friends, environment and life in general. But he continues to go to an unloved job, continues to be in a toxic relationship and continues to engage in unpromising cases.
Relatives, friends and those around him sympathize, give advice, and try to help. But then they step aside, spreading their hands in bewilderment. They fail to reason with the stubborn, going to his death.
Why are you going down?
What is the reason for the failure of such a person? Why does a person return to where he feels bad? Why does he continue to do what he did before, even if it leads to a negative result? When you become so stubborn, you do not notice your stupid and destructive obstinacy.
A person stays where he feels bad, because of a naive desire to fix everything. When you pull a suitcase without a handle, which is a pity to leave. A person is secretly confident that he will succeed, even if the facts say otherwise. But life is not a movie or a fairy tale, there are completely different laws.
Causes of failure in career, relationships and life
The person remains in a toxic relationship. He is trying to “fix” the relationship and his soul mate, although everything is useless. He tries to fix a toxic and inappropriate person, but he doesn’t care. A person suffers but stubbornly tries to pull the strap of a “saviour” and a knight on a white horse. There is no need to save anyone in a relationship – this is sadomasochism and stupid heroism that will change nothing. We need to part, and not continue to go to the bottom. Only in a new relationship will you be happy.
A person stays in a job he doesn’t like. He hopes that he will get used to an unloved job, his efforts will be noticed, the company will begin to prosper, or everything will change for the better. But this is nonsense. It is necessary to leave the unloved and unpromising work. You don’t have to stay where you feel bad. Go looking, don’t try to fix the Titanic, which is sure to sink.
A person communicates with negative people. He is criticized and put spokes in the wheel. Are all friends losers and alcoholics? But why communicate with those who pull to their bottom? Why fight them and convince them? Why stay where it’s bad? Find people who have similar goals and motivation levels.
The man is doing stupid things. Often a person shows obstinacy, instead of perseverance. He’s doing something he should have given up a long time ago. He continues to beat his forehead against the wall, tries, but nothing happens. He is engaged in a useless business, wasting time, effort and other resources. Why stay where it’s bad? Do something else. Why do you go to the bottom and nothing works? You stubbornly stay where it is bad, and do not try to change it.
Why do you stay where it’s bad?