It may seem strange, but most often we deceive ourselves. People should seek to know the truth about themselves to understand what is happening in their lives. But in reality, 90% of people wear rose-coloured glasses, and most likely you do too.
People are strange creatures. If someone deceives us most often, it is ourselves. People live in a world of lies because they cannot resist the truth. We prefer rose-coloured glasses than to face the truth. We hate to know the truth about ourselves. We drown out the voice of reason, do not listen to the advice of loved ones and ignore the real facts. You hide the truth about yourself.
We create lies about ourselves. We lie to ourselves in almost everything. Answer honestly and without any concealments, what are you lying to yourself about?
You lie to yourself
1. We lie to ourselves about work. Most likely your work is not successful, unpromising, and low-paid and it is high time to change it to a new one. But you keep holding on to things you don’t like. Do you most likely hate your job and dream of changing it? Why are you lying to yourself?
2. We lie to ourselves about our appearance. We think they are quite attractive. But we are again. We have excess weight, flabby muscles, tired looks and unhealthy skin. But we prefer to close our eyes to it. Look in the mirror carefully. Maybe it’s time to take care of yourself, start going to the gym, eat right and lead a healthy lifestyle.
3. We lie to ourselves about relationships. Often we are not happy with the relationship, but we prefer to be with someone who is not like us. We are afraid to leave, and therefore we are trying to come to terms with the situation. Or a person is lonely and tries to pretend that he does not need anyone. Stop lying to yourself. Arrange, finally, your personal life.
4. We lie to ourselves that we are happy. We pretend to be happy. But most likely not. We are not satisfied with a thousand things, but we are trying to put up with it.
How to stop lying to yourself?
The truth is too shocking, what is easier to soar in the clouds? Stop denying the truth. It’s time to take charge of your life and face the harsh reality. The main reason for hiding the truth is a lack of courage.
If you want to change your life and succeed in it, then you should start to stop lying to yourself. This will be the first step.