Love yourself, sneeze at everyone and success awaits you in life? Now more and more often you can hear that I owe nothing to anyone. How to be successful and happy?
The modern generation lives by the principle of not owing anything: “Everything that should be specified in the tax code, and everything that should not be specified in the criminal code. The rest is up to me!” But this is the principle of weak and spineless people.
We feel rejected when friends betray, relatives let us down, acquaintances set us up, a girlfriend cheats, and an ex-wife sues half of the property. But they just live according to the modern principle, they owe nothing to anyone. But what is it like to be on the other side of the one who believes that he owes nothing to anyone?
When you don’t owe anything to anyone, it’s easier. Irresponsibility, selfishness, individualism, unwillingness to take on responsibilities. A kind of dragonfly from a fable that only wants to dance and sing all summer long. But when you enter into any relationship, you become responsible for it.
Should you or shouldn’t you? Decide youself. Do you owe your family or not? Raise children and bring to people. Provide parents with a decent old age. Or shouldn’t you? Caring for the family and parents is the foundation of the foundations.
You owe friends. Do you rely on a friend and believe in your friendship? Calling a person a friend, you are obliged to come to his aid in difficult times and stand up for him with a mountain. Otherwise, how to count on a mutual attitude towards you? Friendship is worth a lot.
You owe the other half. We hate when they leave, betray, cheat, leave and hurt. This is what people do who think they don’t owe anyone. When meeting a girl, you count on love, fidelity, tenderness and care. This is fair, but you must give her nothing less in return.
When you give hope, a promise, a word, then you need to be responsible for getting closer to people. We are responsible for those we have tamed. To say that you owe nothing to anyone and to betray those who are dear is vile. Individualism and selfishness will lead not to happiness, but to loneliness.
